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Steep Decline"This is Dr. Barnett," he says.I glance at the clock--8:40 in the morning. This can't be good. "I just spoke with your mother, and she asked me to call you. I've got the results of her bone scan." This should be the nurse calling, I think. Only she'd call late in the afternoon, after she's taken care of all the sick people. Yeah, that's what should be happening. She's supposed to call to say Oh, your mother's torn a ligament in her hip, that's all. Probably happened when she was in therapy to recover from her knee surgery. She'll be fine, or not. But it won't kill her, if that's what you're worried about. It won't kill her at all. But this isn't the nurse. It's the doctor and it's early and he's calling before he sees his very first really sick patient and I can't help but jump straight to my twisted question which is, of course, A torn ligament can't kill her, can it? Of course it can't, you silly daughter, you. And so you see, therein lies the problem. "There are a number of areas of bone that don't look good. Both hips, her right shoulder blade, several ribs..." "She's had lots of compression fractures," I say, "and broken ribs from a car accident. That's what the bone scan is showing, I'm sure. Old injuries, healed injuries..." "Those show up, too," he says, "but that's not what I'm talking about." I call Mom when the doctor disconnects. I have to know what she heard, how much she gathered from what he said. I have to know if she can still add two plus two. "He says my butt has a hot spot," she says, as if the doctor has just complimented her on her perennial sex appeal. "Well, not my butt exactly. My hip." That's all he said? I ask. "And that maybe I've got a couple of other hot spots, too, on other bones." She doesn't ask me what is meant by a hot spot, and I don't tell. There are more tests to come, many more tests, but all will point to a conclusion within the next few days. We'll all know the whole truth soon enough. "You know what I think?" she asks. "I think next he's going to tell me I need a hip transplant. I'm about to cry just thinking about it." If a hip transplant could fix what they think is wrong with my mother, I'd be a happy girl. We'll have to tell her their findings soon, but we'll get through this weekend first, before the next round of tests. "Use your walker every time you move around, Mom," I say. "And don't walk any more than you have to until they figure this out, OK? Your bones are really at risk of breaking right now. So please be careful." "If you say so," she says. "But I still bet he's going to tell me I need a hip transplant." What he's going to tell her, unless an unforeseen bit of serendipity proves him mistaken, is that she has a cancerous tumor somewhere in her body in such an advanced stage that it has metastisized to her bones. What he's going to tell her is that she's dying. "He never mentioned a hip transplant to me, Mom," I say. "Really." And I'm telling her the truth. He never did.
Posted by Katy on 02/04/05 at 10:10 PM
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